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CrazyRabbit
CrazyRabbit
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Sluttyprincess
Sluttyprincess
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
LadyV
LadyV
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
yuhkr
yuhkr
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
Official-Krystal
Official-Krystal
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
DearrJodi
D*******i
Returning after awhile, not sure where I'm going onward. But would like some naughty friends~ Just someone who had pent up fantasies bottled in. Had some naughty experiences but still exploring kinks. I love dressing sexyy and cutee. I'm a hugee brat that loves to tease until you can't help but *** yourself inside me. I also have a big crush on older men. I've had some experiences with that as well. I've been fantasizing of being free-use stress relief with my body.. or cnc (:
Female (21) San Francisco, California
CorruptSlut
C*********t
hey ✨ just here to make friends and have a bit of fun while i explore. my big boobs match my big heart so be kind or i’ll bite.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
TINY_Snowbaby
T***********y
Hello 👋 not looking for a relationship just maybe texting friends. I am a tease and a submissive brat 😈 If ya’ll need someone to please you over the phone or send pics to help you get off I can do that for exchange $$ 😈
Female (33) San Francisco, California
Hawkling_Kumiho
H*************o
arrow, not a sex worker, and definitely not YOUR [insert title or pet name]. not looking for a relationship. open to a dynamic. not looking for or to be a kink vending machine. My test results vary—CHECK BACK OFTEN!! (the blessings and curses of having a switchy/flexible personality!) I'm looking for someone local to join me at munches, to host, to christen me into the City scene... and a human punching bag. (my screenshot pics are from another "dating" app account I have)
Female (33) San Francisco, California
smoothiesin94
s***********4
just a young woman looking for a cyber daddy (emphasis on cyber) that could possibly turn into a real one. I have a daddy kink and a sucking kink and I’m always wanting to play and suck. a nice feeding 😌 a data engineer who would love to be able to turn my brain off and suck to soothe. I’m pretty needy of my daddy so enjoy the heavy attention of one man. I tend to be attracted to older white men but very open to men of all different backgrounds. I’m very normal and it’s easy for me to get a date. I’m just a girl with kinks and her own addictions. that’s why I’m here. let’s talk and discuss more, my love. To be very clear, I’m not interested in dating anyone on this app.
Female (31) San Francisco, California
goodgirlF
g*******F
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (26) San Francisco, California
valiumrat
v*******t
My name is
Female (25) San Francisco, California
kinkyclo26
k********6
sub at heart looking for trouble, who wants to have some fun and connect on a deep level. very intellectually stimulated and sapiosexual. also a brat. some of my kinks: namecalling going down on you spanking teasing control/denial punishments/rewards bondage anal group dynamics being trained to your liking
Female (29) San Francisco, California
WildBrat420
W*********0
Surprise me ✨💋 Mommy Dom Vibes. Brat First. Submissive Second. Always a handful. ✨Spoil me and your Forever 💋💋🤭 I’m a bold, curvy brat with a wicked tongue, a nurturing touch, and a deep craving for control—both giving and receiving. I just moved to San Francisco, and I’m ready to play intentionaly Spankings? I WILL DIE ON THAT HILL 😈 Bare-bottomed, over your knee—please. I glow under dominant energy, sensual teasing and being put in my place 🤤 Mommy knows how to balance care with discipline. I’m a switch, but the mommy dom in me is possessive, playful, and will degrade you , Milk you and own you and make you worship me and spoil me if you earn my time. I’m looking for play partners, parties events, Doms and subs
Female (30) San Francisco, California
SkyBlueKink
S*********k
Blond-ish, green-eyed, ENFP with ADHD. Busy bee, social butterfly, occasional sloth. Amateur chef, house-head, failed actress with a now mostly useless talent for accents. Admittedly a little bougie. I love the ballet, the opera, great restaurants, boutique hotels, and honestly any excuse to get dressed up. But I’m equally happy in a dive bar with a great burger, or staying in listening to music and talking until way too late. Emotionally perceptive, very affectionate, occasionally inappropriate, and probably funnier than I look. I’m an experienced kinkster who’s been trapped in a world of vanilla for far too long. Former kink.com cam model. Comfortable in the deep end. Equal parts playful, submissive, bratty, curious, and insatiable when the chemistry and trust are right. I’ve been called a switch, but the truth is I’m mostly just a brat who needs someone capable of putting her in her place. I’m hyper-independent and honestly exhausted by it. I want to feel small for once. Safe enough to soften. Desired enough to surrender a little. I’m drawn to older, grounded, masculine energy. Men who take initiative, follow through, communicate clearly, and know how to lead without turning it into a performance. Yes, I want chemistry. But I also want consistency, emotional intelligence, honesty, and a real partnership outside the bedroom too. I crave both emotional and physical connection, and I definitely have an above-average appetite for both. I like tension, teasing, control, praise when it’s earned, and being thoroughly corrupted by someone I trust. hopefully I have the chance to tell you to “Make me.”
Female (41) San Francisco, California
kNaur
k***r
Recently out of a LTR. Not looking for anything serious. Give me a detailed description of how you’d love to eat a woman out. (I’m a sub) would love to be part of an MFM threesome as well and I do have some experience with that 🙃 I don’t mind having a person to rave with!! I’m a bass and riddim kinda gal 💅🏾 I’m 5’ 4” and love to be eaten out. 420 friendly. The move you give, the more I give. I have my limits, just ask :)
Female (25) San Francisco, California
abundancedea22
a************2
I am divorced woman looking to explore my submissive side with a sexy dominant woman or women. I love to please women and i want a sexy woman who will teach who be a good submissive slave. willing to explore with the right partner
Female (40) San Francisco, California
MeganTheRedhead
M*************d
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫 I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
queen-sphinxxxx-966
q*****************6
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
sub-gemini
s********i
Daddy and I are looking for a woman to join us! We are fun, dirty, and dynamic. My Daddy is ethical and empathic, but structured and creative. He owns my ass (and every other part too 😘 ). I am, also, open to possible friendships.
Female (47) San Francisco, California
DaminaDatura
D**********a
I am a conscience ethical Domme who is looking for subs,slaves,to play with in a ethical way I am aware that consent and ethics are to separate things and just because someone consents dose not make it ethical the choices I make are based on ethics. I am a unapologetic sadist who runs strict slave training.
Female (45) San Francisco, California
CUMwhoreBUTTslut
C**************t
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
Female (25) San Francisco, California
orion_nebula
o**********a
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (29) San Francisco, California
morallygrayfmc
m************c
just looking around at this point I kind of have a type…. muscles, tattoos, dark hair 🥰 so message me
Female (26) San Francisco, California

New members in San Francisco

CrazyRabbit
CrazyRabbit
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
Official-Krystal
Official-Krystal
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
yuhkr
yuhkr
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
Sluttyprincess
Sluttyprincess
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
LadyV
LadyV
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
DearrJodi
D*******i
Returning after awhile, not sure where I'm going onward. But would like some naughty friends~ Just someone who had pent up fantasies bottled in. Had some naughty experiences but still exploring kinks. I love dressing sexyy and cutee. I'm a hugee brat that loves to tease until you can't help but *** yourself inside me. I also have a big crush on older men. I've had some experiences with that as well. I've been fantasizing of being free-use stress relief with my body.. or cnc (:
Female (21) San Francisco, California
TINY_Snowbaby
T***********y
Hello 👋 not looking for a relationship just maybe texting friends. I am a tease and a submissive brat 😈 If ya’ll need someone to please you over the phone or send pics to help you get off I can do that for exchange $$ 😈
Female (33) San Francisco, California
drew_fin_dom
d**********m
I’m a dom looking for a sub who will spoil me with gifts. I want to take care of them in return. it’s just that simple. add me on snap if your serious about worshipping me: drewdomme
Female (22) San Francisco, California
Hawkling_Kumiho
H*************o
arrow, not a sex worker, and definitely not YOUR [insert title or pet name]. not looking for a relationship. open to a dynamic. not looking for or to be a kink vending machine. My test results vary—CHECK BACK OFTEN!! (the blessings and curses of having a switchy/flexible personality!) I'm looking for someone local to join me at munches, to host, to christen me into the City scene... and a human punching bag. (my screenshot pics are from another "dating" app account I have)
Female (33) San Francisco, California
misschristen
m**********n
I’m confident a Mistress Christen who knows exactly what she wants. I value loyalty, discipline, and a man who understands the meaning of true devotion. I’m seeking a submissive who is ready to serve, grow, and find purpose under my guidance. Respect, trust, and consistency are everything, earn your place, and you’ll be rewarded.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
ssexxymess
s********s
Into femdom, strong feminine energy, and playful power dynamics. I appreciate confidence, control, teasing, and someone who knows exactly what they want.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
abundancedea22
a************2
I am divorced woman looking to explore my submissive side with a sexy dominant woman or women. I love to please women and i want a sexy woman who will teach who be a good submissive slave. willing to explore with the right partner
Female (40) San Francisco, California
ashelfey
a******y
watching people being turned on by *** so hard. look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme. we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit. must be willing to be bullied.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
goodgirlF
g*******F
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (26) San Francisco, California
queen-sphinxxxx-966
q*****************6
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
orion_nebula
o**********a
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (29) San Francisco, California
CUMwhoreBUTTslut
C**************t
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
Female (25) San Francisco, California
BeRealB
B*****B
I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.
Female (44) San Francisco, California
MeganTheRedhead
M*************d
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫 I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Mahogany-Crystal
M**************l
hi I’m Mahogany and I’m a bit new. looking to meet someone who listens to commands. send me a message and let’s see how we connect.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
morallygrayfmc
m************c
just looking around at this point I kind of have a type…. muscles, tattoos, dark hair 🥰 so message me
Female (26) San Francisco, California
URHA1340
U******0
I’m introverted and probably will never respond to anyone’s message. I apologize : ) I’m really trying to build up the courage to make conversations. I’ll be observant. I don’t have Snapchat/Instagram! 🐼 I’m not experienced in any of this! I might come off as super confused. Thank you for the kinky gifts!! 🙂‍↕️🤍
Female (20) San Francisco, California
mayhemraven
m*********n
Professional Boss by day, sexy hot date at night. I love the company of a busy and successful man, who still finds time to make me feel super sexy and engaged. Tell me about your busy day, let me tell you how hot you are and how I can't wait to hang out again. Let's sext all day and keep each other wet. Be my club partner, sex party partner. Let's have fun!
Female (48) San Francisco, California
WildBrat420
W*********0
Surprise me ✨💋 Mommy Dom Vibes. Brat First. Submissive Second. Always a handful. ✨Spoil me and your Forever 💋💋🤭 I’m a bold, curvy brat with a wicked tongue, a nurturing touch, and a deep craving for control—both giving and receiving. I just moved to San Francisco, and I’m ready to play intentionaly Spankings? I WILL DIE ON THAT HILL 😈 Bare-bottomed, over your knee—please. I glow under dominant energy, sensual teasing and being put in my place 🤤 Mommy knows how to balance care with discipline. I’m a switch, but the mommy dom in me is possessive, playful, and will degrade you , Milk you and own you and make you worship me and spoil me if you earn my time. I’m looking for play partners, parties events, Doms and subs
Female (30) San Francisco, California

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Yourfavoritemuse
Fort Wayne Only

Hey! I do not host however I am looking for someone who does in Fort Wayne only. I have hsv, if you don’t know it or don’t tell me why you’re comfortable with it, do not message me. I am only looking for in person, not cyber or long distance. Also this person should be circumcised with at least 7 or more inches, nothing less. Please enter my chat accordingly or I’ll just move on. I’d love to grab a drink.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Fort Wayne
Twirler222
Anyone like a hairy pussy?

I need someone to fuck my pussy and arse
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Lexi-9008
Come get me

Blowbang wanted i wanna be covered in cum...
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Lexi-9008
Come get me

Blow bang wanted I wanna be covered in cum and have my mouth constantly used...
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madison0918
Kink exploration??

Looking for someone to explore kinks with, message me if interested
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Your_Morticia
Ride or Die

Looking for the Golden Retriever pleasure Dom of my dreams.
I'm a very good Servant with a bratty side, but that's all for the fun.
I love the beauty, peace and quiet of Alaska, so I'm hoping if there are sparks you'll be open to relocating.

Please go through my profile to get a feel for me, I hope to hear from you. 💜🦇
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mary-d439917
dominant/rough daddy needed

in need of a rough daddy who uses me like an object. i want to be kept plugged up with daddy’s cum like a trash can 24/7. *** me to take whatever you give me and mark me as yours. my princess parts are aching to be punished. a dirty little girl who doesn’t deserve to have a choice.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Mary D
Amelia_12224
*** and *** me daddy x

My daddy
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curvy_nudist
Seeking sub exhibitionists

Anyone like to show off for mummy? Curvy domme nudist here seeking guys who don’t mind getting it all out
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK North Bersted
sub03038
Looking for a Dom.

I’m looking for an actual Dom. Not somebody who is just dominant, but someone who actually wants to practice the D/s lifestyle.

I crave discipline, thrive on structure, and long for a connection, rooted in control and devotion.

If you’re easy-going, patient, masculine, have a great sense of humor and are willing to put the work into actually getting to know somebody please reach out.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Derry
prettypinksoless
Come to Mama

The only person that will ever pay attention to you is me. You’re worthless and you know it. You find my life because I exist. Fund my life by draining yours. Tribute for a response.
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Birmingham
XeniaK
Wanna have fun

I'm interested in shibari and role-playing games.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Israel Jerusalem
bethel827060
I throbbing

Daddy
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Bethel
Unw8nted
Looking for whatever

Looking for someone to handle me. Snap: sharky24544
Kinky Date ● 5km around USA Orlando
raya2511
Online only

Looking for someone to sext with, roleplay and cnc fantasy less about pictures more about messaging hmu
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Universal City
saint64304
Looking to be taken & used hard tomorrow.

I’m craving a real CNC / *** fantasy scene tomorrow.
Take me to your car, a park, or somewhere semi-public and use me like you own me. Grab me, pin me down, fuck me rough, fill me with cum — do whatever you want with my body. No limits on how rough you get.
I’m a willing slut for this fantasy and I want it to feel real.
Message me with “Ready to take what’s mine” so I know you read this.
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 85km around USA Saint Petersburg
laryssa2005
TPE 24/7

I’m looking for a master/ owner who wants to control me in all that I do. When I can eat, drink, sleep, wake up, use the bathroom, orgasm,etc. I want to give up total control over my life and body. My only purpose is to serve you and make you happy. I thrive on having rules set for me, and love to cross the line from time to time (see me straight). HMU if u want total power over me 😉
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Richmond
missell
Switch in a bratty mood

Switch in a bratty mood😝. Devotion is sexy. Taking interest is ever hotter. I love a guy that wants to know everything bout me🥰

likes it soft. Either dominate me or submit to me.

Beware, I will make you my doll and put you in a skirt, r and cute socks🎀

or like really TRY to dominate me keyword; try 😜

i speak French also

X and @ misshela0 (more active)
Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 205km around Canada Montréal
dover63480
Looking for a new lifestyle

Someone who is in to what I am
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bigdicklover666
I'm boredddd

Message meeee
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sfn803
Looking for some fun

Really wanna experiment with a girl! I’ve never done it before but so excited to try!
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sfn803
Looking for fun

Really wanna experiment with a girl!! I’ve never done it before and wanna give it a try.
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Sabotage
Just looking

Taking it slow.
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