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CrazyRabbit
CrazyRabbit
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
dom-trinity
dom-trinity
As a Mistress, I offer a safe and respectful place where you can explore being submissive with trust. I will guide you, so you can relax and let go while I lead. I believe in clear communication, respect your limits, and make sure every moment is exciting and meaningful.
Female (33) San Francisco, California
Sluttyprincess
Sluttyprincess
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
yuhkr
yuhkr
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
LadyV
LadyV
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
sweetkarrie
sweetkarrie
I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
Official-Krystal
Official-Krystal
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
RuledByVenus
RuledByVenus
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * Sensory deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval
Female (35) San Francisco, California
Luminarybb
L********b
My type: BWC 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏼 Tall & Muscular Big ass Affectionate Generous & loves to spoil me Goal oriented Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages 💆🏻‍♀️ My kinks: Breastfeeding Pegging (occasionally)
Female (37) San Francisco, California
elizabeth005
e**********5
Howdyy I’m Elizabeth, recently moved here for college originally from SC..and yes I have a southern accent..I’m also 4’10 (yes I’m really that short)😂 no longer available
Female (20) San Francisco, California
PoppingE
P******E
“Business owner by day, good company by night. Curves, ambition, and a great sense of humor included. If you’re emotionally mature and like a woman who has her life together, say hello.”
Female (37) San Francisco, California
abundancedea22
a************2
I am divorced woman looking to explore my submissive side with a sexy dominant woman or women. I love to please women and i want a sexy woman who will teach who be a good submissive slave. willing to explore with the right partner
Female (40) San Francisco, California
valiumrat
v*******t
My name is
Female (25) San Francisco, California
EmpressBambiina
E*************a
Prove you’re worth my attention by bringing something worth noticing. I’m a sapiophile. Looking for someone who lives to worship and serve.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
SkyBlueKink
S*********k
Experienced kinkster. Professional level brat. Occasional switch. I love playful power dynamics, teasing tension, and that moment when my Dom decides enough is enough. I tend to lean submissive when the chemistry is right, but I do have a switch side that comes out in the right context. I’m newer to ENM and exploring it thoughtfully. Communication and respect are non negotiable for me. What I’m hoping to find is either • a confident Daddy Dom who enjoys the challenge of a brat and knows how to keep her in line or • a part time service sub who takes real pleasure in being useful and attentive I’m probably not looking for another switch dynamic right now. I tend to do best with someone who is comfortable sitting firmly on one side of the power exchange. oh, and my favorite thing to say in private? “Make me.”
Female (41) San Francisco, California
orion_nebula
o**********a
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (28) San Francisco, California
goodgirlF
g*******F
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (26) San Francisco, California
queen-sphinxxxx-966
q*****************6
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
SENx023
S*****3
An update for those who think my wants are optional bratty babygirl with princess standards and a mouth that occasionally needs supervision. 💅 I’m strictly submissive (read that twice), not a domme, not a switch, and definitely not interested in couples or “let’s all share” situations. Been in the lifestyle 10+ years, never owned mostly because I don’t hand over the leash to just anyone. I want a Daddy Dom who knows the difference between discipline and control. Someone who can tame me with patience, not ego. If you’re not into DD/bg dynamics or you think “aftercare” is optional, you can exit stage left now, babe. 🚪✨ I’m not a pillow princess I give as good as I get but I expect mutual respect and emotional intelligence to match. I want a partnership where we understand our roles in and out of the bedroom (and yeah, you’ll probably still have to remind me who’s in charge sometimes 😇). Quick Summary for the attention-deficient: ✨ Brat, not bitch. ✨ Sub, not switch. ✨ Princess treatment required. ✨ Daddy energy only. If you can’t handle a handful, you don’t deserve a full-time brat. 💋
Female (38) San Francisco, California
DaminaDatura
D**********a
I am a conscience ethical Domme who is looking for subs,slaves,to play with in a ethical way I am aware that consent and ethics are to separate things and just because someone consents dose not make it ethical the choices I make are based on ethics. I am a unapologetic sadist who runs strict slave training.
Female (44) San Francisco, California
ashelfey
a******y
watching people being turned on by *** so hard. look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme. we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit. must be willing to be bullied.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
smoothiesin94
s***********4
just a young woman looking for a cyber daddy (emphasis on cyber) that could possibly turn into a real one. I have a daddy kink and a sucking kink and I’m always wanting to play. I’m pretty needy so enjoy the heavy attention of one man. I tend to be attracted to white men but very open to men of all different backgrounds. I’m very normal and it’s easy for me to get a date. I’m just a girl with kinks and her own addictions. that’s why I’m here. let’s talk and discuss more, my love. To be very clear, I’m not interested in dating anyone on this app.
Female (31) San Francisco, California
CUMwhoreBUTTslut
C**************t
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
Female (25) San Francisco, California
sf-asainbabe
s**********e
seeing what’s out there and who is nearby hoping to gain more bondage experience ( tying someone up or being tied up ) I am NOT looking for dating/ a master also open to chatting/online fun my butterfly in the first pic was a temporary one lol currently visiting San Francisco
Female (24) San Francisco, California

New members in San Francisco

CrazyRabbit
CrazyRabbit
Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
dom-trinity
dom-trinity
As a Mistress, I offer a safe and respectful place where you can explore being submissive with trust. I will guide you, so you can relax and let go while I lead. I believe in clear communication, respect your limits, and make sure every moment is exciting and meaningful.
Female (33) San Francisco, California
sweetkarrie
sweetkarrie
I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
RuledByVenus
RuledByVenus
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * Sensory deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval
Female (35) San Francisco, California
Official-Krystal
Official-Krystal
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
yuhkr
yuhkr
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
Sluttyprincess
Sluttyprincess
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
LadyV
LadyV
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
abundancedea22
a************2
I am divorced woman looking to explore my submissive side with a sexy dominant woman or women. I love to please women and i want a sexy woman who will teach who be a good submissive slave. willing to explore with the right partner
Female (40) San Francisco, California
ashelfey
a******y
watching people being turned on by *** so hard. look for a another women who likes to be ***d and ***d to the extreme. we like to eat acid deep and do coke and special k and do fuck up shit. must be willing to be bullied.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
goodgirlF
g*******F
leave me a comment if you want me to notice 😉 new to kink and actively exploring 🥵 most interested in softdom or DD/lg dynamics, ask away about your other fantasies… chances are I’m into trying 😉
Female (26) San Francisco, California
EmpressBambiina
E*************a
Prove you’re worth my attention by bringing something worth noticing. I’m a sapiophile. Looking for someone who lives to worship and serve.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
queen-sphinxxxx-966
q*****************6
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
PoppingE
P******E
“Business owner by day, good company by night. Curves, ambition, and a great sense of humor included. If you’re emotionally mature and like a woman who has her life together, say hello.”
Female (37) San Francisco, California
orion_nebula
o**********a
feeling a little restless tonight ✨ just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (28) San Francisco, California
CUMwhoreBUTTslut
C**************t
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
Female (25) San Francisco, California
Luminarybb
L********b
My type: BWC 👩🏻‍❤️‍💋‍👨🏼 Tall & Muscular Big ass Affectionate Generous & loves to spoil me Goal oriented Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages 💆🏻‍♀️ My kinks: Breastfeeding Pegging (occasionally)
Female (37) San Francisco, California
BeRealB
B*****B
I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.
Female (44) San Francisco, California
MeganTheRedhead
M*************d
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others 👫 I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
loreleixyz13
l**********3
I’m a City girl in all ways. Beauty and brilliance require discipline. Let's Go! If you're highly intelligent, and handsome, and take good care of yourself, let's establish chemistry, mental connection and build mutual trust. I want to feel your energy and passion for life and what you might have in store for me. My eyes are blue and compliment my blond hair 5'6" -fit!
Female (56) San Francisco, California
RosieMana
R*******a
looking for some people who can help me figure out what i like and try new things, i wanna try and am open to most things. I also really wanna try to do more anal
Female (19) San Francisco, California
Mahogany-Crystal
M**************l
hi I’m Mahogany and I’m a bit new. looking to meet someone who listens to commands. send me a message and let’s see how we connect.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
morallygrayfmc
m************c
just looking around at this point I kind of have a type…. muscles, tattoos, dark hair 🥰 so message me
Female (26) San Francisco, California
stargirl02
s********2
interested to explore what’s out there wanna make friends and perhaps make content (: hit me up and let’s see if we connect 😝
Female (23) San Francisco, California

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Devour me

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I need a Dom to live with

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YourKoala
I'll bring the toys...

Men are great but there's just something about a woman... I'd love to find one i connect with, to play with me. All girl sleepover? Clothing optional 💋
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I want to play and I can’t wait any longer

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Come play with me

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kittycream
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I have a huge breeding kink and want everyone to fuck me raw and leave their loads in me Must be okay with watching or being watched. I also want to record for personal use and feel free to record me too!

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twinkluvr
new kinks

i think that i have a thing for professors or teachers?? they don’t have to be submissive, but i just find them so attractive and sexy, i cant help it lol. is this odd…?
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kinkykarly09
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Hi sexy girl

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angel-chloe
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Little-Bratty-Luna
Seeking my next dom ~

I’m looking for my next dom;
I am open to all kinds of doms. Preferably daddies who also enjoy being owners, sadists, brat tamers. But I do love soft doms as well. I’m open to any age as long as you’re over 21. I am a brat, little & pet. Approach me correctly: send me a message about you and what you’re looking for, etc. let’s vet and see if we hit it off!
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AFKAngel
gamers?

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scottsdaleslut08
Use me

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london277471
Latex addiction

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xtarrystar
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lusticprincess
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Payyigs

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