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I am an Arabic woman who was born to lead, not follow. My beauty may catch the eye, but it is my strength, confidence, and authority that hold it. I walk into any room knowing exactly who I am and what I want, and I make no apologies for the power I carry. I take control with elegance and precision — never reckless, always intentional. My words are firm, my presence undeniable, and my energy impossible to ignore. I don’t chase approval, I set the standard. I know my worth, and I demand nothing less from the world around me. I am both grace and dominance, allure and authority. To know me is to understand that I am not simply good looking — I am commanding, unshakable, and unforgettable.
Female (22) San Francisco, California
Find someone who shares the same goal with you, who is patient and loving. When dawn comes, we will all return to normal, and all the wildness will be left behind in the night
Female (45) San Francisco, California
I’m really interested in Fetish, but I also enjoy meeting new people and sharing experiences. I hope to connect with like-minded people to chat, exchange ideas, and occasionally explore some activities. Safety, respect, and communication are what I value most. If you’re also looking for casual conversation or a slow, exploratory approach, I’d be happy to get to know you
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I'm a cheerful, optimistic, and generous girl and my personality didn't just shape who I am; it also guided me to my career.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
I'm finally looking to explore a long-time interest and get more involved in a community I think it's important to be able to laugh with a partner as well as enjoying hot sex. Generally nerdy - I love puzzles, board games, TRRPGs (any Pathfinder 2e fans out there?), movies, and reading. almost done getting a master's degree and working a job where I am in charge of things all the time and I'm Tired lol.
Female (29) San Francisco, California
Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not). - Cishet men. Cis men in general, but especially cishet men. The intersection of privilege at "cis, het, and man" is just fucking awful to be around. - People who currently have a penis. Sorry, but in a reproductive rights crisis and an epidemic of sexual *** committed primarily by those with penises, I'm not taking the risk.
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I'm a smart, nature-loving, curvy, nerdy creative educator with a big heart and sharp wit. I’m a versatile goddess who moves seamlessly between dark, commanding energy and warm, intuitive connection. 📖 There’s a lot to get to know about me. I’m pretty open and ***, so I hope you are too. Feel free to ask me anything but don’t be surprised if I make you beg for the answer .. 🐶 Whether you're craving firm domination, soft sensual control, a bratty tease, or a safe space to explore your kinks.. I'm the one you’ve been craving (and ***ing) to meet. Obedient pets, bratty boys, soft subs, soft doms, sissies, and curious explorers are all welcome in my world as long as respect is given and consent is honored. 💝 Bonus points if you believe in spoiling a goddess who's just as good at deep talks as she is at taking control. If you want to get my attention send me a gift to show me. My primary love languages are gifts and quality time. I show love through quality time and words of affirmation & degr*dation 😈
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (26) San Francisco, California
I'm someone who loves adventure, good conversations, and making meaningful connections. I’m passionate about my work, but I also value balance spending time with family, traveling, and enjoying the little things in life. I'm looking for someone genuine, kind, and ready to build something real together.
Female (36) San Francisco, California
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I love this life and value every day lived! Optimism never leaves me! I pace through my life with confidence and hope! It's good to know that sometimes life has a way of making us such decisions like this - to find this site and look for love everywhere and in any age! I like home comfort and cooking.
Female (53) San Francisco, California
I'm a free-spirited adventurer with a heart of gold, always chasing sunsets and new experiences. When I'm not working, you can find me trying new recipes or practicing yoga.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
i love to pleasure men and make them cum with my tongue that turns me on giving massage and of course some coochie . 5.2.0.4.1.3. 9.0. 9.2 text me
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I am not an Angel, not all girls would be brave enough to say that, but I do believe I can make a man happy at the end of the day not a drama queen, just want harmony,
Female (36) San Francisco, California
Step into my world where obedience is a privilege and power is pleasure I am a sensual strict Mistress with a sharp mind and a sharper tongue I specialize in psychological control tease and denial roleplay foot worship *** and total power exchange Every session is crafted to explore the depths of your submission whether you’re a novice sub or an experienced plaything craving discipline Respect loyalty and devotion are nonnegotiable I reward obedience and punish insolence If you’re worthy you may kneel before me but only if I allow it Come correct or don’t come at all
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I am looking for a strong, kind-hearted man who values honesty and respect. He's someone who leads with confidence, shows care and understanding, but has a playful side and a great sense of humor. where love and loyalty are key. This man is protective, supportive, and knows how to keep things light and fun while building a passionate and lasting marriage.
Female (51) San Francisco, California
I am mature woman.I have life experience but still naughty, playful ,romantic girl trusting in miracles and happiness, and of course , in love At the same time, I am pretty down to Earth . I love this. I used to rely on myself and to look soberly around. I do all my best and much more to look good- very active , healthy style of life, much sport, fitness and diet. I am proud with myself-
Female (47) San Francisco, California
Open to whatever feels right—could be fun dates, a deep connection, or something long-term if we click. No pressure, just good company and honest vibes.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
I'm here to connect with people in a genuine, honest, and respectful way. I’m not interested in anything sexual or inappropriate, so I kindly ask that you avoid using any explicit or suggestive language when speaking with me. Thank you for being straightforward, but I want to be clear that I’m looking for meaningful, sincere friendships built on trust, mutual respect, and good conversation. I’m not into casual encounters or random flirting with strangers online. If we’re on the same page, I’d be happy to keep chatting and get to know you better. I hope you can understand and respect where I’m coming from.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
I hope the younger ones stay away from me. I am not here to play games. If you greet me, I will just delete it.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * *** deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I am a gentle and delicate person, always honest with others and myself. This time I mustered up the courage to come here, not for crazy excitement, but to find the kind of beautiful connection where we can talk about our hobbies and get along quietly.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure as a sub but it’s funny because I’m a brat?
Female (24) San Francisco, California
A little about me. I am tall, fit, easy going, and love the outdoors. I love to travel and travel a lot for fun and sometimes for work. I am open to trying almost anything at least once.
Female (36) San Francisco, California

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I’m really interested in Fetish, but I also enjoy meeting new people and sharing experiences. I hope to connect with like-minded people to chat, exchange ideas, and occasionally explore some activities. Safety, respect, and communication are what I value most. If you’re also looking for casual conversation or a slow, exploratory approach, I’d be happy to get to know you
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I'm a cheerful, optimistic, and generous girl and my personality didn't just shape who I am; it also guided me to my career.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * *** deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fine💋 I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax play🔥. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I'm finally looking to explore a long-time interest and get more involved in a community I think it's important to be able to laugh with a partner as well as enjoying hot sex. Generally nerdy - I love puzzles, board games, TRRPGs (any Pathfinder 2e fans out there?), movies, and reading. almost done getting a master's degree and working a job where I am in charge of things all the time and I'm Tired lol.
Female (29) San Francisco, California
I am a woman who knows how to appreciate the simple joys of life and find inspiration in the little things. I like to smile at the world and give positive emotions to people around me. I believe that happiness is not only big events, but also warm words, a look, care, attention. I am sincere, honest and open to communication, I love new acquaintances and interesting conversations, but at the same time I value stability and comfort. Spiritual closeness, the ability to listen and hear, as well as mutual respect are important to me. I love it when there is lightness and romance in a relationship, but at the same time - seriousness of intentions and reliability. I believe that true love is built on trust, respect and the ability to support each other in any situation.
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I am an Arabic woman who was born to lead, not follow. My beauty may catch the eye, but it is my strength, confidence, and authority that hold it. I walk into any room knowing exactly who I am and what I want, and I make no apologies for the power I carry. I take control with elegance and precision — never reckless, always intentional. My words are firm, my presence undeniable, and my energy impossible to ignore. I don’t chase approval, I set the standard. I know my worth, and I demand nothing less from the world around me. I am both grace and dominance, allure and authority. To know me is to understand that I am not simply good looking — I am commanding, unshakable, and unforgettable.
Female (22) San Francisco, California
I'm a free-spirited adventurer with a heart of gold, always chasing sunsets and new experiences. When I'm not working, you can find me trying new recipes or practicing yoga.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
i love to pleasure men and make them cum with my tongue that turns me on giving massage and of course some coochie . 5.2.0.4.1.3. 9.0. 9.2 text me
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I'm here to connect with people in a genuine, honest, and respectful way. I’m not interested in anything sexual or inappropriate, so I kindly ask that you avoid using any explicit or suggestive language when speaking with me. Thank you for being straightforward, but I want to be clear that I’m looking for meaningful, sincere friendships built on trust, mutual respect, and good conversation. I’m not into casual encounters or random flirting with strangers online. If we’re on the same page, I’d be happy to keep chatting and get to know you better. I hope you can understand and respect where I’m coming from.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
I am a sports lover, especially golf and gym. Golf teaches me patience and focus, while gym helps me maintain fitness and zest for life. Traveling is a complement to my life. I believe that new experiences open up insights and enrich the soul. If you enjoy nature, sports, and occasionally explore new cultures, we will definitely connect
Female (37) San Francisco, California
A little about me. I am tall, fit, easy going, and love the outdoors. I love to travel and travel a lot for fun and sometimes for work. I am open to trying almost anything at least once.
Female (36) San Francisco, California
Step into my world where obedience is a privilege and power is pleasure I am a sensual strict Mistress with a sharp mind and a sharper tongue I specialize in psychological control tease and denial roleplay foot worship *** and total power exchange Every session is crafted to explore the depths of your submission whether you’re a novice sub or an experienced plaything craving discipline Respect loyalty and devotion are nonnegotiable I reward obedience and punish insolence If you’re worthy you may kneel before me but only if I allow it Come correct or don’t come at all
Female (33) San Francisco, California
I am not an Angel, not all girls would be brave enough to say that, but I do believe I can make a man happy at the end of the day not a drama queen, just want harmony,
Female (36) San Francisco, California
Open to whatever feels right—could be fun dates, a deep connection, or something long-term if we click. No pressure, just good company and honest vibes.
Female (37) San Francisco, California
I'm someone who loves adventure, good conversations, and making meaningful connections. I’m passionate about my work, but I also value balance spending time with family, traveling, and enjoying the little things in life. I'm looking for someone genuine, kind, and ready to build something real together.
Female (36) San Francisco, California
I am looking for a strong, kind-hearted man who values honesty and respect. He's someone who leads with confidence, shows care and understanding, but has a playful side and a great sense of humor. where love and loyalty are key. This man is protective, supportive, and knows how to keep things light and fun while building a passionate and lasting marriage.
Female (51) San Francisco, California
I am mature woman.I have life experience but still naughty, playful ,romantic girl trusting in miracles and happiness, and of course , in love At the same time, I am pretty down to Earth . I love this. I used to rely on myself and to look soberly around. I do all my best and much more to look good- very active , healthy style of life, much sport, fitness and diet. I am proud with myself-
Female (47) San Francisco, California
I love this life and value every day lived! Optimism never leaves me! I pace through my life with confidence and hope! It's good to know that sometimes life has a way of making us such decisions like this - to find this site and look for love everywhere and in any age! I like home comfort and cooking.
Female (53) San Francisco, California
I hope the younger ones stay away from me. I am not here to play games. If you greet me, I will just delete it.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
I am a gentle and delicate person, always honest with others and myself. This time I mustered up the courage to come here, not for crazy excitement, but to find the kind of beautiful connection where we can talk about our hobbies and get along quietly.
Female (38) San Francisco, California
I am a very cheerful and sincere person. I like to start each new day with a smile and finish it with a smile too. In life, there are many reasons for sadness and I understand that you cannot always feel happy, but still I think that you need the most positive attitude to life and then everything will be fine. Would you like to have a faithful, kind, bright and energetic lady by your side who knows how to take care of herself and her man? If your answer is "yes", then I am just the right person for you! Besides, I have a good sense of humor and I am full of ideas. You will never be bored with me).
I'm a smart, nature-loving, curvy, nerdy creative educator with a big heart and sharp wit. I’m a versatile goddess who moves seamlessly between dark, commanding energy and warm, intuitive connection. 📖 There’s a lot to get to know about me. I’m pretty open and ***, so I hope you are too. Feel free to ask me anything but don’t be surprised if I make you beg for the answer .. 🐶 Whether you're craving firm domination, soft sensual control, a bratty tease, or a safe space to explore your kinks.. I'm the one you’ve been craving (and ***ing) to meet. Obedient pets, bratty boys, soft subs, soft doms, sissies, and curious explorers are all welcome in my world as long as respect is given and consent is honored. 💝 Bonus points if you believe in spoiling a goddess who's just as good at deep talks as she is at taking control. If you want to get my attention send me a gift to show me. My primary love languages are gifts and quality time. I show love through quality time and words of affirmation & degr*dation 😈
Female (32) San Francisco, California
Find someone who shares the same goal with you, who is patient and loving. When dawn comes, we will all return to normal, and all the wildness will be left behind in the night
Female (45) San Francisco, California

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