Find kinky women in San Francisco

Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
I'm finally looking to explore a long-time interest and get more involved in a community I think it's important to be able to laugh with a partner as well as enjoying hot sex. Generally nerdy - I love puzzles, board games, TRRPGs (any Pathfinder 2e fans out there?), movies, and reading. I'm getting a master's degree and working a job where I am in charge of things all the time and I'm Tired lol.
Female (29) San Francisco, California
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Highly recommend you leave me the fuck alone. I really dislike cis men. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure as a sub but it’s funny because I’m a brat?
Female (24) San Francisco, California
I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * Sensory deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fineπŸ’‹ I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax playπŸ”₯. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I hope the younger ones stay away from me. I am not here to play games. If you greet me, I will just delete it.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
Soft submissive seeking a consensual dynamic with someone experienced who prioritizes my pleasure. Respect and chemistry are non negotiable. Only interested in chatting if the goal is to eventually meet
Female (23) San Francisco, California
β€œBusiness owner by day, good company by night. Curves, ambition, and a great sense of humor included. If you’re emotionally mature and like a woman who has her life together, say hello.”
Female (37) San Francisco, California
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
My type: BWC πŸ‘©πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ’‹β€πŸ‘¨πŸΌ Tall & Muscular Big ass Affectionate Generous & loves to spoil me Goal oriented Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages πŸ’†πŸ»β€β™€οΈ My kinks: Breastfeeding Pegging (occasionally)
Female (37) San Francisco, California
just looking around at this point I kind of have a type…. muscles, tattoos, dark hair πŸ₯° so message me
Female (26) San Francisco, California
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others πŸ‘« I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
NO OVER 35, or YOUNGER than 21
Fun southern lady, always vibing, smiling and down to have some fun! Looking for a cutie that like to have fun to explore a lil FFM fun
Female (31) San Francisco, California
✨ Brat First. Submissive Second. Always a handful. ✨ I’m a bold, curvy brat with a sharp tongue, a wicked giggle, and a deep craving for connection, correction, and control. I’ve just moved to San Francisco and I’m easing back into my kink life after a long breakβ€”thirsty, hungry, and ready to feel everything again. Spankings? Bare-bottomed and over the knee, please. I light up under dominant energy, sensual touch, teasing control, and playful tension. I’m not easy to tameβ€”but if you know how to listen, lead, and leave your mark, I just might soften for you. Looking for play partners, events, classes, and kink mischief. Touch my mind first, then my body. I’m not here for gamesβ€”I’m here to be explored, challenged, and cherished. Can you handle the brat?
Female (30) San Francisco, California
Plus sized, submissive American from California. I am just seeing what’s out there. I primarily live in the bay area, California but travel to Amsterdam frequently for work (for a few weeks at a time) I am 5’9” tall (1.75m) and around 265lbs (120.2kg or 18.9st). Large bust and very thick thighs and legs. I enjoy a good pleasure Dom that isn't afraid to get a bit rough. I love some *** but please leave the farm ***s names out of the scene. it's not offensive, per se, but it's distracting and odd to me so I will laugh and lose focus. My primary turn on is not just being a good girl, but to be HIS PERFECT GIRL. Nothing turns me on more than making my Dom lose control
Female (42) San Francisco, California
my partner and I are looking for like-minded Swinger couples who are into bbc cuckold play and cyber fun. My BBC partner and I are both very open-minded and kinky. We’re looking for a community to join for ongoing Swinger play preferably mature people over 35.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
Hi, I'm Brooke, I love to travel, work on, and offer my travel service, I live in downtown Oakland, and I also love to work out, read, and study.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
Bb here. I’m simple. I am a closet rope bunny but love to degrade my partner. Please be gentle with me and I’ll be your fantasy. I also have a few feet daddies/mommies. Interested in seeing them? Ask me how 😘
Female (36) San Francisco, California
just a young woman looking for a cyber daddy (emphasis on cyber) that could possibly turn into a real one. I have a daddy kink and a sucking kink and I’m always wanting to play. I’m pretty needy so enjoy the heavy attention of one man. I tend to be attracted to white men but very open to men of all different backgrounds. I’m very normal and it’s easy for me to get a date. I’m just a girl with kinks and her own addictions. that’s why I’m here. let’s talk and discuss more, my love. To be very clear, I’m not interested in dating anyone on this app.
Female (31) San Francisco, California

New members in San Francisco

Rather than jumping straight into practice, I value spiritual connection and in-depth communication more. If you'd like to explore the wonders of this world with me, please feel free to say hello
Female (40) San Francisco, California
I’m 25, full of energy and optimism, and believe love should be built on trust, respect, and laughter. I enjoy spending time with family and friends, exploring new places, and finding joy in life’s little moments. I’m looking for someone genuine, loyal, and ready to share both everyday adventures and a meaningful future together.
Female (25) San Francisco, California
FROM WATER AND STARDUST. NOT RIB. Understand this: I am not the woman you’re looking for. The Cherub-Faced Charmer or Assassin, depending on who you ask. I am a Black, queer, pansexual woman. I walk the line(s) between sensualist, sadist, and - with a very select few - slut. (Don't ask to be apart of this few unless you want to anger me.) I crave a silver tongue and a pair of velvet lips skilled, reverent, and hungry. Lips that know their place between my thighs. The idea of a devoted yoni worshiper - unapologetically focused haunts my idle hours. Yes, I am nurturing. Yes, I am soft. But never mistake softness for weakness. I can be cruel and filthy with the willing, eager, and most of all, deserving. My philosophy is simple. Play should be alchemical: part chaos, part discovery. Liberation wrapped in tension. Reverence wrapped in ruin. But always, always grounded in respect and consent. My kinky interests include (but are not limited to): * Power play * Impact play (flogging, paddling) * Pegging * Pet play * Wax * Food play * Sensory deprivation * Burlesque * Ass and Yoni worship * Occasional group encounters I am in search of (unless I EXPLICITLY state otherwise): * Community (real connections with real people) * Educational Events and Opportunities to further my kinky education and skills * Play Events * Mentorship I AM NOT SEEKING (Unless I explicitly state otherwise): * One-on-one's * A Dom/ Daddy * Your validation or approval
Female (35) San Francisco, California
I’m not here for dates, lunches, or casual hangouts. I prefer keeping things on MY terms. I enjoy control, teasing energy, and deep mental play. I appreciate those who understand that energy, attention, and generosity are part of the exchange. If you know how to show respect and appreciation, we’ll get along just fineπŸ’‹ I also enjoy connecting with others in the community, building real friendships, and attending events that feed my curiosity. And yes,,I’m into wax playπŸ”₯. Sensual, slow, and just the right amount of sting😌
Female (32) San Francisco, California
I'm finally looking to explore a long-time interest and get more involved in a community I think it's important to be able to laugh with a partner as well as enjoying hot sex. Generally nerdy - I love puzzles, board games, TRRPGs (any Pathfinder 2e fans out there?), movies, and reading. I'm getting a master's degree and working a job where I am in charge of things all the time and I'm Tired lol.
Female (29) San Francisco, California
I'm still pretty new to this whole scene, and honestly, I didn't expect to enjoy it so much. I’ve only experienced a few, but I hope to learn more and experience this lifestyle over time
Female (45) San Francisco, California
I hope the younger ones stay away from me. I am not here to play games. If you greet me, I will just delete it.
Female (39) San Francisco, California
Don’t be shy! message me. I am a little/ sub/ kitten and I’m looking for a daddy/ dom to play with me. I like to have rules and structure as a sub but it’s funny because I’m a brat?
Female (24) San Francisco, California
I do as I please My personality tends to switch with the person I am interacting with I have both a dominant side, and a VERY submissive side for certain people. I like to get to know the person I am engaging with prior to indulging in our play, as it is very important to establish our roles and boundaries. Last Tested: 01/28/26 D#isclaimer: I Do NOT consent to my info, pics, or otherwise being used for any kind of project or otherwise, without my absolute written permission.
Female (27) San Francisco, California
*** If you are a cis man, odds are not in your favor. Fair warning. Highly recommend you leave me the fuck alone. I really dislike cis men. Hello there ~ I'm here for something different from Fetlife. Interested in friends, play partners, and people I can attend munches, classes, and events with. Connections I'm interested in: - Masochists, submissives, bottoms, pets, slaves, or sub-leaning switches for both short term and long term play partner dynamics. - Queer community folks and other femmes! - Other poly/ENM folks for discussing our dating & relationship experiences! For the record, I am ENM and happily married to my submissive partner. - Local community only. - Dungeon, kink event, munch, and class partners/friends. - Nerdy/Artsy/Weird people for platonic friendships and/or play partners! - Rope enthusiasts I can learn from and with. - 🩸/Needle play enthusiasts (I require recent testing prior to play). - Fire play and wax play lovers. - Fantasy, sci-fi, and horror fans (this includes people who love books, D&D, anime, movies, and cons of course). - Interesting people who can teach me new things. Connections I am NOT interested in: - No long distance. No online. No tourists. - No racists, homophobes, sexists, transphobes or any other sort of bigoted asshole. - No conservatives, centrists, or libertarians. - No sissy fetishists. - No illegal/abusive activities. - No hookups for vanilla sex acts. - No swingers/unicorn hunting couples. - No pay-for-play dynamics (respect to those who are into it, but I'm not).
Female (34) San Francisco, California
Here for subs and slaves who enjoy giving their power over completely to an experienced Domme. Only approach Me if you are ready to give a true Goddess an offering. ✨
Female (30) San Francisco, California
Soft submissive seeking a consensual dynamic with someone experienced who prioritizes my pleasure. Respect and chemistry are non negotiable. Only interested in chatting if the goal is to eventually meet
Female (23) San Francisco, California
Fun southern lady, always vibing, smiling and down to have some fun! Looking for a cutie that like to have fun to explore a lil FFM fun
Female (31) San Francisco, California
β€œBusiness owner by day, good company by night. Curves, ambition, and a great sense of humor included. If you’re emotionally mature and like a woman who has her life together, say hello.”
Female (37) San Francisco, California
just out of a long term relationship, and trying to find some of the spark I’ve been missing also, just chopped my hair! it’s at my shoulders now
Female (28) San Francisco, California
This is not new to me. I love to be dominated by tall dark and handsome men. I love anal, cream pies, deep throating, and bondage. I am really up for anything and open to all types of people. Come share you're inner freak. I'm looking to meet in person and hook up with no strings attached..no bullshit..no games..just fucking
Female (25) San Francisco, California
Plus sized, submissive American from California. I am just seeing what’s out there. I primarily live in the bay area, California but travel to Amsterdam frequently for work (for a few weeks at a time) I am 5’9” tall (1.75m) and around 265lbs (120.2kg or 18.9st). Large bust and very thick thighs and legs. I enjoy a good pleasure Dom that isn't afraid to get a bit rough. I love some *** but please leave the farm ***s names out of the scene. it's not offensive, per se, but it's distracting and odd to me so I will laugh and lose focus. My primary turn on is not just being a good girl, but to be HIS PERFECT GIRL. Nothing turns me on more than making my Dom lose control
Female (42) San Francisco, California
My type: BWC πŸ‘©πŸ»β€β€οΈβ€πŸ’‹β€πŸ‘¨πŸΌ Tall & Muscular Big ass Affectionate Generous & loves to spoil me Goal oriented Loves to cuddle & give warm oil massages πŸ’†πŸ»β€β™€οΈ My kinks: Breastfeeding Pegging (occasionally)
Female (37) San Francisco, California
I am an artist. I love the attire we get to wear in the scene. the leather the corsets the shoes the ropes the collars and the implements used. I believe I am a switch but am still getting that out. I want to explore shibari, device bondage, to experience a pleasure Dom, to learn the proper etiquette, and to make lifelong friends/ play partners. I'm into women and men and couples. I don't have a lot of experience due to lack of like-minded people and I'm a bit shy and often feel out of place but I get over that if made to feel welcome. I enjoy both sides of a flogger and love worshipping both cock and pussy so far but I'm still a newbie. looking for serious fun in SF.
Female (44) San Francisco, California
5’9 Amazonian badass. Plays well with others πŸ‘« I speak fluent Spanish. Big bark, small bite. I love to be submissive and let others take control when theres trust and familiarity.
Female (34) San Francisco, California
I’m a City girl in all ways. Beauty and brilliance require discipline. Let's Go! If you're highly intelligent, and handsome, and take good care of yourself, let's establish chemistry, mental connection and build mutual trust. I want to feel your energy and passion for life and what you might have in store for me. My eyes are blue and compliment my blond hair 5'6" -fit!
Female (56) San Francisco, California
looking for some people who can help me figure out what i like and try new things, i wanna try and am open to most things. I also really wanna try to do more anal
Female (19) San Francisco, California
looking to expand on community I am a bratty (don't mean to be its just in my nature) little looking for a caregiver I would love to find a partner to explore with rope I enjoy spanking impact play choking CNC primal play hair pulling
hi I’m Mahogany and I’m a bit new. looking to meet someone who listens to commands. send me a message and let’s see how we connect.
Female (25) San Francisco, California

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